My Baby Blues

Thank you HashimLafond for being an amazing husband and friend! Hashim has been so attentive and aware of my behavior after having Yasir. I have had the baby blues especially during week three. I noticed that it would creep up on me when I had time to myself. Hashim would notice me sitting on the bed and staring off. He would catch me looking at my phone but not have any app open. Just a blank screen! He would ask me if I was okay and if you know me you know I said yes and tried to brush it off. He however noticed I was seconds from tears.

I say "Baby Blues" because I have no issues loving on my family. I never want to put Yasir down and we are definitely bonding. I do not want to harm anyone and don't have any negative thoughts. So I say baby blues because I have moments of sadness that I cannot control or explain. I am not sure if it is because of the different hormones of having a boy but I did not experience this with the girls. At least not that I was aware of.

I could tell he wanted to help but wasn't sure what I needed or how to help. So he called some amazing women we have in our lives. Such as friends and my Sister-in-law Aisha. They either gave advice or told me to come over.Hashimdid everything he could to help. He let me sleep in with 3 under 3. Then he kept me busy even if I was out with him. He kept me around people. This helped 100%!!! I can honestly say that I am feeling great! The baby blues has passed. I don't know how I would have gotten through this without the love, help and support ofHashim.